Today I was asked by some seminary students what advice I’d give to church planters.
After thinking about that question some more, I’ve listed five adages below that help keep me centered through the task of planting Hope Church NYC.
I imagine some people can relate to these, whether you’re a church planter or not.
*Each adage has a Bible verse italicized which I think captures the essence of each saying, I think.
1. Pray. Now. (Psalm 27)
The two words go together for me. I have to remember that above all else, God is the author and perfecter of my faith. Prayer is the most obvious byproduct of remembering this truth.
As a church planter, it’s convenient for me to forget about God because there’s so much to do and there’s an insufferable feeling that it’s all on my shoulders.
Well, it’s not. God’s ultimately in control.
The word “Now” is added because prayer is often the easiest thing to push to the back of my to-do list.
Perhaps there are some more urgent things to do as a church planter – but nothing more important.
Hence I need to pray. Now. Not Later.
2. One Day at a Time (Matthew 6:34)
I alluded to this in a previous post, but this saying is extremely helpful for me.
I so want Hope to instantaneously be what I envision.
Too bad life doesn’t work that way.
Tina laughs at me when I ask her when she thinks we should add another service.
We’ve barely started laying the groundwork for the first, she reminds me.
How was the Great Wall Built? One brick at a time.
3. “Go, Sit in Your Cell, and Your Cell will Teach You Everything” – A Saying by A Desert Father (Phil 4:11-13)
I’ve read/heard this phrase a few times over the years, and it comes from the Desert Fathers.
The saying could mean a lot of things, including the need for silence, solitude, and “think” space.
The way I take the phrase is to focus on what God’s given me to do, instead of peering out over the horizon at what everyone else is doing.
I’ve noticed that when I fall into the comparison trap, I lose sight of what God’s called me and our church to do.
I can get so concerned with other church plants or the latest trends in church world that I lose sight of our church and our community.
There are so many God moments that I might miss out on because I’m so enamored with what’s happening over there.
Meanwhile, all that’s happening right in front of me is quite sacred and beautiful.
4. “What is This Life if, Full of Care, We Have No Time to Stand and Stare” – WH Davies (Exodus 20:8)
With all the stresses and tasks of church planting, it’s easy to feel miserable. That is, if I don’t take the time to “stand and stare”.
For me, this means Sabbath-keeping and other disciplines that give me space to experience joy and pleasure.
This saying has been especially helpful since we have a newborn. Although we look forward to getting out of these first twelve weeks with David (our son), Tina and I have been consciously enjoying this stage of our son’s life.
He’s such an adorable little guy, and it’d be so easy for me to miss out on precious moments with our son because I’m so caught up in the tasks I need to complete.
Sometimes as church planters we can sacrifice the wrong things for the sake of mission, as if it’s an honor to be a miserable church planter.
I’d much rather be a joyful church planter (who gets miserable sometimes).
5. Love God, Love People (Matthew 22:36-40) – ‘Nuff said.
Is there any advice you’ve found helpful as a church planter or entrepreneur?